Arguments about dishes aren’t really about dishes. The daily tension couples face often has emotional and physical roots. That’s why Pleasure Matters approaches couples counseling in Seattle with a focus on both communication and intimacy. We explore how unresolved sexual frustration can quietly fuel resentment, just as much as unspoken emotions can dull physical connection. Our sessions don’t just revolve around compromise—they invite curiosity. We help you ask different questions. What do you want from each other emotionally and physically? What hasn’t been said out loud? Many couples come to us feeling more like roommates than lovers. That’s something we can work on—together. We create a comfortable space to unpack everything, including the awkward, the tender, and the fun. It’s not about assigning blame—it’s about understanding needs and rebuilding trust. When both partners feel heard, safe, and wanted, everything changes. We help couples rediscover that spark they thought was gone. For more information visit: https://www.pleasurematterstherapy.com/